Fluttering Dreams
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+ Friends +
Footprints in the sand

Amelia (Moley)
Brian (Bra)
Bryan
BuBu
Charlene (QOM)
Charmaine
Cindy
Calista (Cousin)
Da Hye
Edwin (Mr. Brightside)
Eilin
Eugene
Geraldine (Bestie)
Halley
Joyce
Li Ann (Sissie)
Melissa (Sister)
Mint (Quack Quack)
Wan Jun
Wei Wei
Zhen Yi (The Intellect)

+ Blogs I Read +

  • A Doc's Life
  • Blinky Mummy
  • Melted Pot
  • Rockson
  • Tristefemme

    • + Memories +
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    + Credits +

  • Butterfly Bars
    • + ChrystaL +

    ♥ Retarded. Spastic. Chronic Procrastinator.
    ♥ Loves her Kissing Gourami

    + My Treasures +
    ♥ Nokia N73
    ♥ iPod Nano
    ♥ Virgin Whisper Whites
    ♥ My Family

    + Movies to Watch +

  • Black Dahlia
  • Death Note
  • Little Miss Sunshine
  • Miami Vice
  • The Night Listener
  • The Prestige
  • Stay Alive
  • World Trade Center

    • + ShoutBox +

    + Pictures +

    Tuesday, November 07, 2006

    I've moved (again)!

    I've moved! Here here!

    ♥ ChrystaL @ 1:01 AM

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    Thursday, November 02, 2006

    The Simple Life

    Recently, I've been spending more time with myself. Like with myself and only myself. No family, no boyfriend, no friends. I really cherish whatever time I have privately, be it just a simple spending window shopping at the mall, or gulping sipping on coffee at Coffee Bean/Starbucks.

    I remember that last year, probably around the same period as now, I started pulling myself out of my social circle and decided to spend some time with myself, re-energising and to rethink my goals in life. It was fruitful and as soon as I was over it, I felt so much better, so much more confident and focused in my direction. Needless to say, I was single so I had more time to myself.

    I thought I'd never get that same kind of lifestyle ever since I got attached (not that it's a bad thing), but well I yearned to enjoy such a time with myself.

    We're all self-obsessed creatures, whether you like it or not.

    So anyway I realised the kind of singlehood when you're single single, and the kind of "singlehood" when you're not single attached, comes in a different level. Spending quality time with myself not only allows me to disconnect from my social circle and revisit my thoughts, but has made me appreciate my loved ones better. I'm so glad I have a boyfriend who loves me and spends time with me. I'm fortunate to have a complete family full of warmth. I'm even more grateful to God who has blessed me with such a wonderful life.

    Life's pleasures come from the simplest of things.

    ♥ ChrystaL @ 2:12 PM

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    Saturday, October 28, 2006

    Not Not

    It is not easy, but not impossible
    It is not clear, but not blinding
    It is uncertain, but not a failure
    It is not up to expectations, but not a disappointment
    It is not good, but it is not wrong
    It is not fine, but it is not the end of the world
    It is not bright, but it is not hopeless.

    When things happen, we tend to associate or assume that it is the end and there's nothing we can do about it. But why should we think of the end when we haven't really failed? Why should we quickly end it off when something hasn't been fulfilled? Does it make one a better person? Does it make one a better learner? Or does it simply make one get on and over with it?

    Chances may seem grim, and we seem to be revolving around the same subject. End get ting tangled up. It is you who ends up being the failure, not what has happened.

    You tie the dead knot.

    ♥ ChrystaL @ 12:39 AM

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